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Sado-masochist love, help? First of all, i dont want anyone to answer this question who doesnt COMPLETELY understand slave and master love.
You will obviously view it as wrong and blah blah blah.
This question is for the few who understand it, and i was hoping you could help me
I feel in love with someone who is into Sado-masochist love
We've been dating for 2 years
He controls me, completely (i dont mind)
What i am afraid of is the type of love that i get, as you already know, in a slave and master relationship the master shows the slave love by inflicting emotional pain
The problem is, im not a masochist
But i am inlove with my partner, more than i can ever say
He holds the greatest part of me
Ands hes always been good to me, he doesnt cheat, or is rude to me at all
But i dont understand his love
Can someone please explain to me how a master expresses their true love to their slave?
thank you
and if its really love, or just for fun | Yea I feel sketchy on whether true love can be expressed though Sado-masochist. Reason is in your situation you've said you don't understand his love and true love is suppose to be evenly meet to equal a whole.
Sadomasochist is more of a sexual gratification and pleasure. Though love can be an attraction based on sexual desire alone, personally you sound confused and that's alarming cause his methods are tough.
***Experience...? No I'm not an emotionally depressed and abusive person... | Have u ever xperience Bondage, Sado-Masochism? If so which role do you prefer? Dominant or submissive? If dominant, how do u love to humiliate your slave?
If slave, how do u love to get humiliated?
How far will you go / let go? | | I prefer to dominate. As far as humiliation, there is boot licking, spittin on them etc....discipilinary sodomy a whole world of stuff. As far as how far to let it go just use safety words like yellow and red and repect your partners boundries. | Can you grow out of BDSM? Confused about bf, help Please? Okay I'm well not exactly talking about the whole BDSM deal. But just say someone (a male) was into the porn genre: tying girls up, doing things to the girl when she's tied up; in real life wanted to use handcuffs, collar/leash, have control, do things to the girl/ use things on her, kind of have her as his slave, just periodically (sometimes in the bedroom)...no sado-masochism by the way. Anyway, if a guy wanted to do these things/these things turned him on a lot, but like, in the relationship he would do anything for the girl, he loves her beyond anything, desperately wants to please her, what would you say about this? And also, can a guy grow out of this if he is young? Because he said he did but I just don't know if I can believe it... =(
Sorry this question is really jumbled but I hope you get what I'm trying to ask. I'm just really confused. | | If he treats you great and is a little kinky so what??? | Can you grow out of BDSM? Confused about bf, help Please? Okay I'm well not exactly talking about the whole BDSM deal. But just say someone (a male) was into the porn genre: tying girls up, doing things to the girl when she's tied up; in real life wanted to use handcuffs, collar/leash, have control, do things to the girl/ use things on her, kind of have her as his slave, just periodically (sometimes in the bedroom)...no sado-masochism by the way. Anyway, if a guy wanted to do these things/these things turned him on a lot, but like, in the relationship he would do anything for the girl, he loves her beyond anything, desperately wants to please her, what would you say about this? And also, can a guy grow out of this if he is young? Because he said he did but I just don't know if I can believe it... =(
Sorry this question is really jumbled but I hope you get what I'm trying to ask. I'm just really confused. | | Yeah, sometimes a fetish will fade away. Watch this video about them, it's mostly SFW and it's pretty funny. | Can you grow out of BDSM? Confused about bf, help Please? Okay I'm well not exactly talking about the whole BDSM deal. But just say someone (a male) was into the porn genre: tying girls up, doing things to the girl when she's tied up; in real life wanted to use handcuffs, collar/leash, have control, do things to the girl/ use things on her, kind of have her as his slave, just periodically (sometimes in the bedroom)...no sado-masochism by the way. Anyway, if a guy wanted to do these things/these things turned him on a lot, but like, in the relationship he would do anything for the girl, he loves her beyond anything, desperately wants to please her, what would you say about this? And also, can a guy grow out of this if he is young? Because he said he did but I just don't know if I can believe it... =(
Sorry this question is really jumbled but I hope you get what I'm trying to ask. I'm just really confused. | | For some people, things like than can be just a phase that they go through and as time goes by they lose interest in it. Tastes change over time. The thrill, often, is in the novelty of the experience, but after time, the novelty wears off and you move on to other things. Maybe, on occasion, he gives it a look again, but only when it is rare enough to be a novelty again. | Can you grow out of BDSM? Confused about bf, help Please? Okay I'm well not exactly talking about the whole BDSM deal. But just say someone (a male) was into the porn genre: tying girls up, doing things to the girl when she's tied up; in real life wanted to use handcuffs, collar/leash, have control, do things to the girl/ use things on her, kind of have her as his slave, just periodically (sometimes in the bedroom)...no sado-masochism by the way. Anyway, if a guy wanted to do these things/these things turned him on a lot, but like, in the relationship he would do anything for the girl, he loves her beyond anything, desperately wants to please her, what would you say about this? And also, can a guy grow out of this if he is young? Because he said he did but I just don't know if I can believe it... =(
Sorry this question is really jumbled but I hope you get what I'm trying to ask. I'm just really confused. | Sophia, this is a very common sexual interest. It's unlikely to go away, ever, whether he acts on it or not, whether he seeks counseling or doesn't, whether his partners play along or hate him for trying.
There are websites, online groups, and real life organizations which instruct and support safe, sane, and consensual control play, including bondage, slave-master play, and similar games.
If I had complete trust in the guy, I'd be okay with doing this some of the time, to please him (and expect him to engage in what I like, in exchange), but I don't find it arousing myself. There are women who do, and in a perfect world, that's who he'd be in a relationship with.
If you're uncomfortable with it, you do not have to participate. Sexual incompatibility breaks up couples sometimes, and generally that's the best thing for it, because needs and interests do not disappear or change. |
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